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South Tynedale Mag

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Broke up with wor lass
« on: Saturday 24 January 2009, 09:13:21 AM »
Thought we were going to get back together today but she told me she got with someone last night. I'm absolutely gutted and need some words of wisdom. Revenge?
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Re: Broke up with wor lass
« Reply #1 on: Saturday 24 January 2009, 09:17:53 AM »
Hang out the back of as many lasses as possible.

Then enjoy a few doses, then start again with the relationship s****.

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Re: Broke up with wor lass
« Reply #2 on: Saturday 24 January 2009, 09:19:08 AM »
That's harsh mate, sorry to hear that.

This is very clichéd but if she's so quick to go elsewhere you're probably better off without her. Don't bother with revenge, concentrate your efforts on moving on and you'll soon find things easier.

South Tynedale Mag

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Re: Broke up with wor lass
« Reply #3 on: Saturday 24 January 2009, 09:21:08 AM »
Cheers mate, it's horrible to find out that someones like that though. Can't believe she'd do that to someone she "loved".
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Re: Broke up with wor lass
« Reply #4 on: Saturday 24 January 2009, 09:25:49 AM »
I know how you feel man, but your best bet is to get so deep into somebody whoever pulls you out is legally the king of england ;)

Re: Broke up with wor lass
« Reply #5 on: Saturday 24 January 2009, 09:39:17 AM »
Sorry to hear that mate. I know it's a cliché but time really is a great healer on matters like this. As long as you've got a good group of mates who can help you through all of this.
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Re: Broke up with wor lass
« Reply #6 on: Saturday 24 January 2009, 10:18:58 AM »
Man up :shifty:
   

Re: Broke up with wor lass
« Reply #7 on: Saturday 24 January 2009, 10:36:26 AM »
Give it a week then go out on the pull again. You'll feel better after the week provided you keep yourself busy - don't mope about and sit round by yourself - make sure you're active or with mates or whatever.
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Re: Broke up with wor lass
« Reply #8 on: Saturday 24 January 2009, 10:37:23 AM »
Man up :shifty:
no no no...........stick to girls.
Bullshitters misrepresent themselves to their audience not as liars do, that is, by deliberately making false claims about what is true. In fact, bullshit need not be untrue at all.

Rather, bullshitters seek to convey a certain impression of themselves without being concerned about whether anything at all is true. They quietly change the rules governing their end of the conversation so that claims about truth and falsity are irrelevant.

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Re: Broke up with wor lass
« Reply #9 on: Saturday 24 January 2009, 10:39:07 AM »
Feel for you mate, I really do. I can understand you wanting revenge, but don't give into hate. Revenge will only leave you feeling much much worse than you do now. Try to see what she's done to you as a blessing in disguise. Above all though, don't let her selfishness make you feel inadequate or pessimistic. Just ignore the silly bitch and get busy living, mate.

Re: Broke up with wor lass
« Reply #10 on: Saturday 24 January 2009, 10:40:04 AM »
nowt better than getting with someone new after a long time of monogamy.
Bullshitters misrepresent themselves to their audience not as liars do, that is, by deliberately making false claims about what is true. In fact, bullshit need not be untrue at all.

Rather, bullshitters seek to convey a certain impression of themselves without being concerned about whether anything at all is true. They quietly change the rules governing their end of the conversation so that claims about truth and falsity are irrelevant.

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Re: Broke up with wor lass
« Reply #11 on: Saturday 24 January 2009, 10:41:37 AM »
nowt better than getting with someone new after a long time of monogamy.

Aye. I explain this to my girlfriend all the time..

Re: Broke up with wor lass
« Reply #12 on: Saturday 24 January 2009, 10:43:09 AM »
nowt better than getting with someone new after a long time of monogamy.

Aye. I explain this to my girlfriend all the time..
during a long time of monagomy can be fun too.
Bullshitters misrepresent themselves to their audience not as liars do, that is, by deliberately making false claims about what is true. In fact, bullshit need not be untrue at all.

Rather, bullshitters seek to convey a certain impression of themselves without being concerned about whether anything at all is true. They quietly change the rules governing their end of the conversation so that claims about truth and falsity are irrelevant.

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Re: Broke up with wor lass
« Reply #13 on: Saturday 24 January 2009, 11:09:34 AM »
Aye, sorry to hear that mate, follow the revenge advice, stay away from it. The best 'revenge' is to carry on with your life and see what tomorrow brings
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Re: Broke up with wor lass
« Reply #14 on: Saturday 24 January 2009, 12:08:58 PM »
Thought we were going to get back together today but she told me she got with someone last night. I'm absolutely gutted and need some words of wisdom. Revenge?

Just let it go.

I've had something similar happen to me before and it hurts like hell but as people have said, time will help you move on. Always a good time to change something in your life.. start up a new sport, go running, get in contact with mates you haven't seen for years.
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Re: Broke up with wor lass
« Reply #15 on: Saturday 24 January 2009, 12:18:47 PM »
Where does she live mate?  Get me some rope, some petrol, scissors, four/five bin-liners and a hack-saw (all for under £10) and I'll sort it for you. PM me. Have a think.
First week is hard but like the chaps ahve said, keep busy, get drunk for a week and I swear you will feel ok after 6/7 days.  The hardest bit is phone watching in the vain hope of a text. Delete her number. Contact your phone service provider and get her number/messages blocked.  If you PM me of course you  can save yourself the bother. Good luck chap.
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Re: Broke up with wor lass
« Reply #16 on: Saturday 24 January 2009, 12:53:50 PM »
Where does she live mate?  Get me some rope, some petrol, scissors, four/five bin-liners and a hack-saw (all for under £10) and I'll sort it for you. PM me. Have a think.
First week is hard but like the chaps ahve said, keep busy, get drunk for a week and I swear you will feel ok after 6/7 days.  The hardest bit is phone watching in the vain hope of a text. Delete her number. Contact your phone service provider and get her number/messages blocked.  If you PM me of course you  can save yourself the bother. Good luck chap.

 :lol: :lol:

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Re: Broke up with wor lass
« Reply #17 on: Saturday 24 January 2009, 12:57:05 PM »
It was me she got with. Have to say she's a canny ride mate, you taught her well.

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Re: Broke up with wor lass
« Reply #18 on: Saturday 24 January 2009, 01:09:28 PM »
It was me she got with. Have to say she's a canny ride mate, you taught her well.

Thats nothing compared to the crazy s*** I've been teaching your mother.

Re: Broke up with wor lass
« Reply #19 on: Saturday 24 January 2009, 02:00:15 PM »
Gutted for you there, mate. The exact turn of events happened to me... although it wasn't her who told me she got with someone else... so yeah, i can pretty much echo other people's comments. Time is a healer, and all that. I'd try to avoid contact with her aswell. Bit of a 'stroppy' way of doing things but it works if you ask me. Remain tight-nit, good friends and all that, and it'll take longer for the feelings to completely go away - if ever. So if it's possible, avoid her.

Controversial? Dunno - just speaking from past experience really.

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Re: Broke up with wor lass
« Reply #20 on: Saturday 24 January 2009, 02:01:57 PM »
It was me she got with. Have to say she's a canny ride mate, you taught her well.

Thats nothing compared to the crazy s*** I've been teaching your mother.


So you're the special guy, she did mention you.

Re: Broke up with wor lass
« Reply #21 on: Saturday 24 January 2009, 02:15:02 PM »
thats harsh...

my only real suggestion I'd make is to request that you post pictures of her, you know, to help you get over it and all...

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Re: Broke up with wor lass
« Reply #22 on: Saturday 24 January 2009, 02:22:37 PM »
Cheers mate, it's horrible to find out that someones like that though. Can't believe she'd do that to someone she "loved".

 Hard luck mate. But you know what?? you are the f***ing prize man!! if she can't see that then it's her fault. If you've treated her with respect, and she's gone out and done this to you, she doesn't deserve a moment of you feeling gutted about her.

 And don't take this as her rejecting you. Don't let the rejection get to you. She's obviously fickle about her feelings, and just think that if the relationship had gone on for longer, how much bullshit you could have been fed by her.

 Good riddance to bad rubbish. If you have some sweet memories with her, cherish those and move on. Don't think about what just happened, and don;t hold a grudge. And as is always the case, the best remedy to getting over a girl is getting inside another. So pick yourself up, take a good long shower to wash any thoughts of her off you, and come out that bath feeling like a new man again. Go out on the pull, and enjoy the company of your friends.

 Do not choose revenge, because not going for it is sweet enough revenge as it is.

 Good luck fella. Talk to us some more if you need any more support.
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Re: Broke up with wor lass
« Reply #23 on: Saturday 24 January 2009, 02:30:49 PM »
Cheers mate, it's horrible to find out that someones like that though. Can't believe she'd do that to someone she "loved".

 Hard luck mate. But you know what?? you are the f***ing prize man!!

:lol: Sounds like his search for new love is over.
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Re: Broke up with wor lass
« Reply #24 on: Saturday 24 January 2009, 02:35:15 PM »
Cheers mate, it's horrible to find out that someones like that though. Can't believe she'd do that to someone she "loved".

 Hard luck mate. But you know what?? you are the f***ing prize man!!

:lol: Sounds like his search for new love is over.

 No way dude! I'm saving myself for you. You had me at :lol:

  :smitten:
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