We shouldn't be surprised, Mike Dean is always like this, he's one of those refs who thinks he's bigger than the game.
Heskey was offside.
Bassong committed one foul - tugging at his shirt way outside the box.
Heskey then fouled Bassong.
Heskey then fell over in the box.
There was another player covering, so Bassong wan't the last man, nor was the original foul or the 'foul' in the box a " clear goalscoring opportunity".
Kirkland's fouls on Carroll was worse and WAS a foul.
Why no red card?
Why was Carroll booked for diving in the 83rd minute, when he was clearly fouled? Clear penalty.
So yes, you're the only person who thought the ref did well for the penalty.
Also, why was Cattermole not sent off for the fould on Beye?
Not that any of this hides what was an incredibly poor and disappointing performance by us.
Oh and watch the football first highlights, if it's the same ones I watched the commentators were shocking, can anyone tell me who Dean the co-commentator was?