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GM

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Re: What mood are you in?
« Reply #14425 on: Sunday 5 September 2010, 09:38:42 PM »
Just found out a close family friend died in his sleep this weekend, totally out of the blue so I'm shocked and upset, feel for my Dad as he was his best friend.

Sorry to hear that. Don't know if it's any sort of comfort to know that at least he went the way most people would like to go, peacefully in his sleep?

LesPaul

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Re: What mood are you in?
« Reply #14426 on: Sunday 5 September 2010, 09:53:10 PM »
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Re: What mood are you in?
« Reply #14427 on: Sunday 5 September 2010, 09:56:33 PM »
Just found out a close family friend died in his sleep this weekend, totally out of the blue so I'm shocked and upset, feel for my Dad as he was his best friend.

Sorry to hear that. Don't know if it's any sort of comfort to know that at least he went the way most people would like to go, peacefully in his sleep?

I guess so aye, still a shock.

To top it all off I found my cousin has split up with her bloke and moved out of the house. Poor kids, 16 month old twins.

Crazy day.

Re: What mood are you in?
« Reply #14428 on: Sunday 5 September 2010, 10:05:28 PM »
:( sorry to hear Greg.

Re: What mood are you in?
« Reply #14429 on: Monday 6 September 2010, 08:23:29 AM »
Since Sunday everything has gone wrong, came down for breakfast and coffee at 7am to find the internal pipework under the bathroom floor is leaking into the kitchen and dripping down through the light fittings FFS.

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Re: What mood are you in?
« Reply #14430 on: Monday 6 September 2010, 08:44:48 PM »
Well, my partner has just told me she cheated on me last week.  Didn't 'go far', but still.

I'm annoyed at my initial laid back reaction, we've all made mistakes.  But I've had a shower since and thought about it, I thought "has she just told me cause Derek (best mate) seen her?"

I did the typical "is it me?" s***, now I just want to boss her head off a wall.  My initial reaction has just allowed her to settle down, when I'm getting more and more enraged every minute.
You will not be punished for your anger, you will be punished by your anger.
We ourselves are responsible for our own happiness and misery. We create our own Heaven. We create our own Hell. We are the architects of our own fate.
Student says " I am very discouraged. What should I do?" Master says, "encourage others."
We are what we think. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts, we make the world.
It takes a wise man to learn from his mistakes, but an even wiser man to learn from others.
This is what should be done. By one who is skilled in goodness, and who knows the path of peace: Let them be able and upright, straightforward and gentle in speech. Humble and not conceited, contented and easily satisfied. Unburdened with duties and frugal in their ways. Peaceful and calm, and wise and skillful, not proud and demanding in nature. Let them not do the slightest thing that the wise would later reprove.

GM

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Re: What mood are you in?
« Reply #14431 on: Monday 6 September 2010, 08:54:30 PM »
Well, my partner has just told me she cheated on me last week.  Didn't 'go far', but still.

I'm annoyed at my initial laid back reaction, we've all made mistakes.  But I've had a shower since and thought about it, I thought "has she just told me cause Derek (best mate) seen her?"

I did the typical "is it me?" s***, now I just want to boss her head off a wall.  My initial reaction has just allowed her to settle down, when I'm getting more and more enraged every minute.

Don't let it eat your soul, mate. These things happen to the best of us - you should maybe go back to her calmly and just tell her that actually it isn't OK, and what she's done has p*ssed you off, but if I were you I'd honestly just go and smoke some s*** and get totally bongoed. That way, you won't go staving her head in with a rolling pin.

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Re: What mood are you in?
« Reply #14432 on: Monday 6 September 2010, 08:56:21 PM »
Well, my partner has just told me she cheated on me last week.  Didn't 'go far', but still.

I'm annoyed at my initial laid back reaction, we've all made mistakes.  But I've had a shower since and thought about it, I thought "has she just told me cause Derek (best mate) seen her?"

I did the typical "is it me?" s***, now I just want to boss her head off a wall.  My initial reaction has just allowed her to settle down, when I'm getting more and more enraged every minute.

Tell her what you think, rather than let it make you more and more angry.

BlufPurdi

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Re: What mood are you in?
« Reply #14433 on: Monday 6 September 2010, 09:01:21 PM »
Well, my partner has just told me she cheated on me last week.  Didn't 'go far', but still.

I'm annoyed at my initial laid back reaction, we've all made mistakes.  But I've had a shower since and thought about it, I thought "has she just told me cause Derek (best mate) seen her?"

I did the typical "is it me?" s***, now I just want to boss her head off a wall.  My initial reaction has just allowed her to settle down, when I'm getting more and more enraged every minute.

Don't let it eat your soul, mate. These things happen to the best of us - you should maybe go back to her calmly and just tell her that actually it isn't OK, and what she's done has p*ssed you off, but if I were you I'd honestly just go and smoke some s*** and get totally bongoed. That way, you won't go staving her head in with a rolling pin.

:lol: I would, I'm f***ing out though.  I took a couple of painkillers to calm the edge a bit.

I've nowt against the act itself, ironically perhaps, but wee things like only coming clean cause you got caught, no real sign of guilt are eating away. 

I've always been incredibly loyal, and with having a kid I guess I just figured this wouldn't happen.  Feeling a bit bewildered to be honest.  Run my arse into the ground for her and Kiefer.  Don't go out as much as I should, or as much as she says I should, but I just can't get my head round it.  She's a moody b****** 22/7, and she's the one cheating? :tickedoff:
You will not be punished for your anger, you will be punished by your anger.
We ourselves are responsible for our own happiness and misery. We create our own Heaven. We create our own Hell. We are the architects of our own fate.
Student says " I am very discouraged. What should I do?" Master says, "encourage others."
We are what we think. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts, we make the world.
It takes a wise man to learn from his mistakes, but an even wiser man to learn from others.
This is what should be done. By one who is skilled in goodness, and who knows the path of peace: Let them be able and upright, straightforward and gentle in speech. Humble and not conceited, contented and easily satisfied. Unburdened with duties and frugal in their ways. Peaceful and calm, and wise and skillful, not proud and demanding in nature. Let them not do the slightest thing that the wise would later reprove.

GM

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Re: What mood are you in?
« Reply #14434 on: Monday 6 September 2010, 09:03:35 PM »
Well, my partner has just told me she cheated on me last week.  Didn't 'go far', but still.

I'm annoyed at my initial laid back reaction, we've all made mistakes.  But I've had a shower since and thought about it, I thought "has she just told me cause Derek (best mate) seen her?"

I did the typical "is it me?" s***, now I just want to boss her head off a wall.  My initial reaction has just allowed her to settle down, when I'm getting more and more enraged every minute.

Don't let it eat your soul, mate. These things happen to the best of us - you should maybe go back to her calmly and just tell her that actually it isn't OK, and what she's done has p*ssed you off, but if I were you I'd honestly just go and smoke some s*** and get totally bongoed. That way, you won't go staving her head in with a rolling pin.

:lol: I would, I'm f***ing out though.  I took a couple of painkillers to calm the edge a bit.

I've nowt against the act itself, ironically perhaps, but wee things like only coming clean cause you got caught, no real sign of guilt are eating away. 

I've always been incredibly loyal, and with having a kid I guess I just figured this wouldn't happen.  Feeling a bit bewildered to be honest.  Run my arse into the ground for her and Kiefer.  Don't go out as much as I should, or as much as she says I should, but I just can't get my head round it.  She's a moody b****** 22/7, and she's the one cheating? :tickedoff:

What's she doing for those other two hours, then? :naughty:

BlufPurdi

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Re: What mood are you in?
« Reply #14435 on: Monday 6 September 2010, 09:03:44 PM »
Well, my partner has just told me she cheated on me last week.  Didn't 'go far', but still.

I'm annoyed at my initial laid back reaction, we've all made mistakes.  But I've had a shower since and thought about it, I thought "has she just told me cause Derek (best mate) seen her?"

I did the typical "is it me?" s***, now I just want to boss her head off a wall.  My initial reaction has just allowed her to settle down, when I'm getting more and more enraged every minute.

Tell her what you think, rather than let it make you more and more angry.

I bottle everything up man, I think I drive on the anguish it causes. 
You will not be punished for your anger, you will be punished by your anger.
We ourselves are responsible for our own happiness and misery. We create our own Heaven. We create our own Hell. We are the architects of our own fate.
Student says " I am very discouraged. What should I do?" Master says, "encourage others."
We are what we think. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts, we make the world.
It takes a wise man to learn from his mistakes, but an even wiser man to learn from others.
This is what should be done. By one who is skilled in goodness, and who knows the path of peace: Let them be able and upright, straightforward and gentle in speech. Humble and not conceited, contented and easily satisfied. Unburdened with duties and frugal in their ways. Peaceful and calm, and wise and skillful, not proud and demanding in nature. Let them not do the slightest thing that the wise would later reprove.

Dave

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Re: What mood are you in?
« Reply #14436 on: Monday 6 September 2010, 09:03:58 PM »
Please don't think I'm laughing at you Bluf mate because I'm not, but I'd really advise against 'bossing her head off a wall'. :lol:

cp40

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Re: What mood are you in?
« Reply #14437 on: Monday 6 September 2010, 09:05:06 PM »
Please don't think I'm laughing at you Bluf mate because I'm not, but I'd really advise  'bossing her head off a wall'. :lol:


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Disco

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Re: What mood are you in?
« Reply #14438 on: Monday 6 September 2010, 09:05:19 PM »
Just talk, things like these you need to get out in the open, if not for you then for the little un.

Dave

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Re: What mood are you in?
« Reply #14439 on: Monday 6 September 2010, 09:05:48 PM »
Just talk, things like these you need to get out in the open, if not for you then for the little un.

:thup:

BlufPurdi

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Re: What mood are you in?
« Reply #14440 on: Monday 6 September 2010, 09:07:00 PM »
Please don't think I'm laughing at you Bluf mate because I'm not, but I'd really advise against 'bossing her head off a wall'. :lol:

That's Plan B.

Here, she'd give as good as she gets, by the way.  But no, I'm not really going to attack her. :aww:
You will not be punished for your anger, you will be punished by your anger.
We ourselves are responsible for our own happiness and misery. We create our own Heaven. We create our own Hell. We are the architects of our own fate.
Student says " I am very discouraged. What should I do?" Master says, "encourage others."
We are what we think. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts, we make the world.
It takes a wise man to learn from his mistakes, but an even wiser man to learn from others.
This is what should be done. By one who is skilled in goodness, and who knows the path of peace: Let them be able and upright, straightforward and gentle in speech. Humble and not conceited, contented and easily satisfied. Unburdened with duties and frugal in their ways. Peaceful and calm, and wise and skillful, not proud and demanding in nature. Let them not do the slightest thing that the wise would later reprove.

Liam Liam Liam O

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Re: What mood are you in?
« Reply #14441 on: Monday 6 September 2010, 09:07:32 PM »
Please don't think I'm laughing at you Bluf mate because I'm not, but I'd really advise against 'bossing her head off a wall'. :lol:

That's Plan B.

Here, she'd give as good as she gets, by the way.  But no, I'm not really going to attack her. :aww:

Why not attack him if you can find him. :thup:

GM

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Re: What mood are you in?
« Reply #14442 on: Monday 6 September 2010, 09:08:37 PM »
Please don't think I'm laughing at you Bluf mate because I'm not, but I'd really advise against 'bossing her head off a wall'. :lol:

That's Plan B.

Here, she'd give as good as she gets, by the way.  But no, I'm not really going to attack her. :aww:

Why not attack him if you can find him. :thup:

f***'s sake man. That's not even funny as a joke. :no:

Liam Liam Liam O

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Re: What mood are you in?
« Reply #14443 on: Monday 6 September 2010, 09:09:55 PM »
Please don't think I'm laughing at you Bluf mate because I'm not, but I'd really advise against 'bossing her head off a wall'. :lol:

That's Plan B.

Here, she'd give as good as she gets, by the way.  But no, I'm not really going to attack her. :aww:

Why not attack him if you can find him. :thup:

f***'s sake man. That's not even funny as a joke. :no:

Which it was obviously.

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Re: What mood are you in?
« Reply #14444 on: Monday 6 September 2010, 09:11:30 PM »
Please don't think I'm laughing at you Bluf mate because I'm not, but I'd really advise against 'bossing her head off a wall'. :lol:

That's Plan B.

Here, she'd give as good as she gets, by the way.  But no, I'm not really going to attack her. :aww:

<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rQjh9H-ymK4&amp;ob=av2e" target="_blank" class="aeva_link bbc_link new_win">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rQjh9H-ymK4&amp;ob=av2e</a>


No - THAT'S Plan B.


P.S. Sorry, I couldn't resist. I'd be canny gutted if my lass cheated.
Missed it at the match, didn't even see Tiote running towards us.. I was facing the other way shaking the handlebars in a blokes mobility scooter behind me as we were screaming at each other :lol:
turned around to see them all lying on the deck.

BlufPurdi

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Re: What mood are you in?
« Reply #14445 on: Monday 6 September 2010, 09:16:51 PM »
Well, at least I've got a Get Out Of Jail free card for heading down next month.. :shifty:

Although, I'd probably feel GUILTY and balls out.  Anyway, that's it.  I'll post any pics first, if I do kill her. :thup:
You will not be punished for your anger, you will be punished by your anger.
We ourselves are responsible for our own happiness and misery. We create our own Heaven. We create our own Hell. We are the architects of our own fate.
Student says " I am very discouraged. What should I do?" Master says, "encourage others."
We are what we think. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts, we make the world.
It takes a wise man to learn from his mistakes, but an even wiser man to learn from others.
This is what should be done. By one who is skilled in goodness, and who knows the path of peace: Let them be able and upright, straightforward and gentle in speech. Humble and not conceited, contented and easily satisfied. Unburdened with duties and frugal in their ways. Peaceful and calm, and wise and skillful, not proud and demanding in nature. Let them not do the slightest thing that the wise would later reprove.

BlufPurdi

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Re: What mood are you in?
« Reply #14446 on: Monday 6 September 2010, 09:18:53 PM »
Please don't think I'm laughing at you Bluf mate because I'm not, but I'd really advise against 'bossing her head off a wall'. :lol:

That's Plan B.

Here, she'd give as good as she gets, by the way.  But no, I'm not really going to attack her. :aww:

Why not attack him if you can find him. :thup:

f***'s sake man. That's not even funny as a joke. :no:

Which it was obviously.

"I don't even know who it was."

Gets better, eh? :facepalm:
You will not be punished for your anger, you will be punished by your anger.
We ourselves are responsible for our own happiness and misery. We create our own Heaven. We create our own Hell. We are the architects of our own fate.
Student says " I am very discouraged. What should I do?" Master says, "encourage others."
We are what we think. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts, we make the world.
It takes a wise man to learn from his mistakes, but an even wiser man to learn from others.
This is what should be done. By one who is skilled in goodness, and who knows the path of peace: Let them be able and upright, straightforward and gentle in speech. Humble and not conceited, contented and easily satisfied. Unburdened with duties and frugal in their ways. Peaceful and calm, and wise and skillful, not proud and demanding in nature. Let them not do the slightest thing that the wise would later reprove.

GM

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Re: What mood are you in?
« Reply #14447 on: Monday 6 September 2010, 09:19:40 PM »
Well, at least I've got a Get Out Of Jail free card for heading down next month.. :shifty:

Although, I'd probably feel GUILTY and balls out.  Anyway, that's it.  I'll post any pics first, if I do kill her. :thup:

But I've paid for the tickets and everything! :frantic:

Dave

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Re: What mood are you in?
« Reply #14448 on: Monday 6 September 2010, 09:22:58 PM »
Please don't think I'm laughing at you Bluf mate because I'm not, but I'd really advise against 'bossing her head off a wall'. :lol:

That's Plan B.

Here, she'd give as good as she gets, by the way.  But no, I'm not really going to attack her. :aww:

Why not attack him if you can find him. :thup:

f***'s sake man. That's not even funny as a joke. :no:

Which it was obviously.

"I don't even know who it was."

Gets better, eh? :facepalm:

Think I'd find that easier to deal with tbh. It sounds more shallow of her on the surface but at least it means she's not got designs on someone she works with or whatever.

:undecided:

BlufPurdi

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Re: What mood are you in?
« Reply #14449 on: Monday 6 September 2010, 09:23:58 PM »
Yeah, true.  That was one of the ways I looked at it.
You will not be punished for your anger, you will be punished by your anger.
We ourselves are responsible for our own happiness and misery. We create our own Heaven. We create our own Hell. We are the architects of our own fate.
Student says " I am very discouraged. What should I do?" Master says, "encourage others."
We are what we think. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts, we make the world.
It takes a wise man to learn from his mistakes, but an even wiser man to learn from others.
This is what should be done. By one who is skilled in goodness, and who knows the path of peace: Let them be able and upright, straightforward and gentle in speech. Humble and not conceited, contented and easily satisfied. Unburdened with duties and frugal in their ways. Peaceful and calm, and wise and skillful, not proud and demanding in nature. Let them not do the slightest thing that the wise would later reprove.