She just still rips the p*ss in that way that you cant find the words to reply. For example, she has had stuff at my flat for ages, every time i came back to london she was away and she couldnt pick it up. This goes on for 3 months as i am often away too. The she calls and says 'why wont you let me get my stuff, do you not want to let go?' but in a real p'ss taking way.
She'll then destroy me for whatever reason and then say, shall we meet for a drink.... I just want to hide somewhere. She can be canny but she can be minging about me, mates, family. Then she says i have a problem if i get worked up.
Its like a weird 70's art house channel 5 repeat series at times.....
You poor bugger, sounds like you have a right meanie on your hands with this bird.
Don't let her insult you or make you feel bad, if she's going to be like that just don't speak to her. Cut all ties with her, that will crack her off when she can't just call you up and insult you and take the pee. You should have arranged a time for her to collect her stuff from the flat and told her that if she failed to turn up on that date to collect it then you would take it to the Oxfam shop.
Never mind about her "canny" side that she probably switches on when she wants something, her nasty side seems to be more in use than her nice side, and she has no right to make you feel like that. Cut all ties and don't take her phone calls. In short, tell her to bugger off if she's going to treat you like crap, you can't let someone away with making you feel like that.
Don't meet with her for a drink either. What a cheek after she's insulted you. You should get a lovely new girlfriend who won't treat you like this, that would also get up her nose.